There’s no doubt we live in scary times, and the world can often be a terrifying place. When we’re not worrying about terrorists and religious extremists, we’re fearing plane crashes and Taken-style kidnappings. Reading the news, it can be very frightening to purchase that plane ticket and head off to a destination you have no first-hand impression of.
Lately my parents have been getting really worried about me traveling, even to “safe” destinations like Germany and Italy. After eight years of solo travel they’re confident in my abilities to take care of myself on the road and make wise decisions; however, it unnerves them that they can’t control the actions of the wackos I may encounter on the road.
So as I see it I have two choices. 1) Barricade myself into my New York City apartment which, in all honesty, isn’t much safer than traveling as I live in a semi-rough neighborhood and a terrorist-targeted city. Or 2) Choose to live my life as I see fit, forgetting fear without forgetting my street smarts.
Life is short no matter what way you slice it. I truly believe we make it shorter — whether we live to be 30 or 300 — by not taking risks and not following our hearts. Go toward the path that’s calling you, and don’t let anyone else scare you into not following your journey.
Proud to be a New Yorker. Here I am enjoying street art in Bushwick, Brooklyn.
While I’m sure there are many who might be afraid to visit Paris right now after all that’s happened, I think it’s the perfect time to go. Show your support. The destination hasn’t changed. It’s still a beautiful place with beautiful people, that was unfortunately victim to a very catastrophic situation.
Growing up in New York, I can somewhat relate. I still remember being in high school, watching the 9/11 attacks unfolding right before my eyes on the television screen, having my friends being called to the principal’s office because their parents were scared or, worse, trapped in the attack. I remember my friend who’s father was a New York City firefighter, and how he told me there was “no way my dad will die.” He did. I remember all of the feelings of terror and sadness and camaraderie afterward. Right after, there were people who lived near me on Long Island who were afraid to make the journey into NYC. My mom and I made the trip, because we hated the idea of letting these terrible people win.
Exploring Amman, the capital of Jordan, and enjoying the view from the Citadel (Jabal al-Qal’a).
I also can’t help but think of all of the beauty that is still in the world. Stories about friendly locals, culturally immersive homestays and successful round-the-world flights typically don’t make headlines; however, these positive experiences are much more prevalent than the bad ones. For instance, I remember family and friends terrifying me before my trip to Jordan, as they didn’t feel safe with me going to the Middle East. In reality, I felt completely at ease during my two weeks through the country, with so many instances of being welcoming by locals (I was even invited into a Bedouin tent for fresh goat milk while hiking through the desert). A blogger named Shara has also guest posted on Jessie on a Journey about Iran being a misunderstood country, as she had a terrific experience.
Don’t let anyone — especially terrorist groups that feed off of your fear — tell you how to live your life. Explore the beauty and positivity that still exists in this world and let it remind you that there is still good and humanity to be found.
What are your thoughts? I would love to hear in the comments below.
Jessie Festa is a New York-based travel content creator who is passionate about empowering her audience to experience new places and live a life of adventure. She is the founder of the solo female travel blog, Jessie on a Journey, and is editor-in-chief of Epicure & Culture, an online conscious tourism magazine. Along with writing, Jessie is a professional photographer and is the owner of NYC Photo Journeys, which offers New York photo tours, photo shoots, and wedding photography. Her work has appeared in publications like USA Today, CNN, Business Insider, Thrillist, and WestJet Magazine.
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